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I love this site... misery loves company!!
I attended school 1994- 1997. I had one child while attended school and had another in the summer of 97. The birth of my second child was the reason I did not continue with my education. Because of an oversight at the school I was attending the module I missed (and had made plans to make up) was a prerequisite for the next module. I couldn't take the next module and that meant that I ended up pushing my graduation date back by three months. Student loans wouldn't grant me funding for the rest of the course. I didn't have the money and dropped out.
So now I owe 25,000 in student loans, no degree and just turned 30. I have stayed home with the kids and my husband is a long haul truck driver. We never really managed to make ends meet and when my hubby was in an accident we lost everything in the bankruptcy.
A woman called me yesterday from some collection agency. I was clear on which one... everytime I asked a question she'd just say "Weren't you listening" or "We already covered that" She's talking about federal liens and tagging my SIN. I asked what my options were at this point and again I got the "weren't you listening" response. I have never been berated like that before. I know that I haven't handled my debt in the best way. But I never had any way of paying it. She told me I should be ashamed of myself and that I need to grow and be responsible. And that I need to set the example for my children!!
I'm scared and unsure of what to do now. I tentatively planned to return to school now that all my kids are in shcool so childcare isn't an issue. But now I don't know what to do. PLEASE if anyone can give me some advice I will be in your debt forever!!
------------- "All who wander are not lost..."
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